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		<title>By: Scott W. Smith</title>
		<link>http://www.lavarow.com/2009/10/27/how-to-get-serious-about-public-speaking/comment-page-1/#comment-1498</link>
		<dc:creator>Scott W. Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 00:34:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Toastmasters, Toastmasters, Toastmasters. Never have I seen so many people improve their speaking skills so quickly than through Toastmasters. And they have groups everywhere.

www.toastmasters.org</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Toastmasters, Toastmasters, Toastmasters. Never have I seen so many people improve their speaking skills so quickly than through Toastmasters. And they have groups everywhere.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.toastmasters.org" rel="nofollow">http://www.toastmasters.org</a></p>
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		<title>By: Barb Gordon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barb Gordon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 19:28:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nathan, I enjoyed your talk for the Art Directors Association of Iowa. You followed all the tips you shared in this blog post. Thanks for sharing your time and talent.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nathan, I enjoyed your talk for the Art Directors Association of Iowa. You followed all the tips you shared in this blog post. Thanks for sharing your time and talent.</p>
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		<title>By: Aaron Weiche</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aaron Weiche</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 01:23:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nathan- Great post topic, one that isn&#039;t covered enough. I really value your tip on having case studies/examples at hand.  Once you have educated your audience, the next step is &quot;Show us how this has worked&quot;.  Being prepared to do that seals the deal on a great preso.  Thanks again for a great topic.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nathan- Great post topic, one that isn&#8217;t covered enough. I really value your tip on having case studies/examples at hand.  Once you have educated your audience, the next step is &#8220;Show us how this has worked&#8221;.  Being prepared to do that seals the deal on a great preso.  Thanks again for a great topic.</p>
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		<title>By: Patrick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patrick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 19:10:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haha, thanks Chris. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha, thanks Chris. <img src='http://www.lavarow.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: chrispian</title>
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		<dc:creator>chrispian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 17:14:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As someone who&#039;s a little terrified at the idea of speaking but really would love to, this is very helpful. Great advice and write up. Also, I agree, Patrick did a bang up job keeping the panel on topic. Never seen one go so smoothly. Even with the lists demo (which was cool!) we had 1 minute of tape left on the video. Talk about timing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As someone who&#8217;s a little terrified at the idea of speaking but really would love to, this is very helpful. Great advice and write up. Also, I agree, Patrick did a bang up job keeping the panel on topic. Never seen one go so smoothly. Even with the lists demo (which was cool!) we had 1 minute of tape left on the video. Talk about timing.</p>
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		<title>By: Patrick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patrick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 16:42:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haha, Robert&#039;s great. :) (And I mean that). 

Thanks so much, Nathan. It means a lot to me to hear this feedback from you. It was actually my first time moderating a panel. So, this makes me really happy. :)

Funny thing about the Twitter lists demo. When it was happening - it was unplanned and I had no idea until it actually happened - I was thinking about it and the following things kind of went through my mind: we&#039;re making good time, we can afford to do this. Not many people have access, so people will be interested, let&#039;s see where it goes. Hopefully not so long that I need to forcibly cut anyone off.

Thankfully, that&#039;s what happened. Robert gave a great demo and was a great panelist. Afterward, I really thought it was awesome that the Twitter Lists demo was sort of a side plot for the panel, an extra morsel, if you will. Because we delivered what we came to deliver: we covered all of our points in an appropriate amount of time and we had a good Q&amp;A where we answered whatever people asked. I hope it delivered value overall.

Great post, Nathan. This is a really helpful one for people looking to speak.

I have one more tip to add: don&#039;t be afraid to be different (style wise). A couple of days before the conference, I decided I didn&#039;t want to look at Twitter during the panel. At all. I didn&#039;t want to read from it during our presentation, I didn&#039;t want to look at it during our presentation and I didn&#039;t want it to interrupt us. 

There were a lot of panels where the Twitter discussion or the back channel or whatever was a big part of it and that&#039;s understandable. I would do it myself in the right setting, if I wanted (and did do it at Social Media Business Forum, a conference held shortly after BWE). I just felt it for this one.

My reasoning was that BWE has us there to speak to the people who are there. The best part of conferences to me is face to face networking. As such, I wanted to focus on delivering the presentation to the people we were looking in the eyes and on answering the questions of anyone who stepped to the mic and looked us in the eyes. If no one stepped to the mic, sure, we&#039;d then open up Twitter. But, otherwise, I didn&#039;t want to.

So, I told Wayne this and he was cool with it. I told Amber and so was she. I wasn&#039;t sure how Robert would react, but he was gracious and agreed to it (he didn&#039;t even open his laptop during the panel!). I was so happy with the way we stuck to it. The only question asked from Twitter was one that another person actually came to the mic to ask, which was awesome (to me).

Twitter is amazing and we all love it, but I think that... for one panel... the idea of not looking at it was a good thing. So, don&#039;t feel like you have to do stuff just because everyone else is doing it or because you feel like you&#039;d be scorned if you didn&#039;t do it for not being &quot;transparent.&quot; 

Hope this makes sense.

Thanks again,

Patrick</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha, Robert&#8217;s great. <img src='http://www.lavarow.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  (And I mean that). </p>
<p>Thanks so much, Nathan. It means a lot to me to hear this feedback from you. It was actually my first time moderating a panel. So, this makes me really happy. <img src='http://www.lavarow.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Funny thing about the Twitter lists demo. When it was happening &#8211; it was unplanned and I had no idea until it actually happened &#8211; I was thinking about it and the following things kind of went through my mind: we&#8217;re making good time, we can afford to do this. Not many people have access, so people will be interested, let&#8217;s see where it goes. Hopefully not so long that I need to forcibly cut anyone off.</p>
<p>Thankfully, that&#8217;s what happened. Robert gave a great demo and was a great panelist. Afterward, I really thought it was awesome that the Twitter Lists demo was sort of a side plot for the panel, an extra morsel, if you will. Because we delivered what we came to deliver: we covered all of our points in an appropriate amount of time and we had a good Q&amp;A where we answered whatever people asked. I hope it delivered value overall.</p>
<p>Great post, Nathan. This is a really helpful one for people looking to speak.</p>
<p>I have one more tip to add: don&#8217;t be afraid to be different (style wise). A couple of days before the conference, I decided I didn&#8217;t want to look at Twitter during the panel. At all. I didn&#8217;t want to read from it during our presentation, I didn&#8217;t want to look at it during our presentation and I didn&#8217;t want it to interrupt us. </p>
<p>There were a lot of panels where the Twitter discussion or the back channel or whatever was a big part of it and that&#8217;s understandable. I would do it myself in the right setting, if I wanted (and did do it at Social Media Business Forum, a conference held shortly after BWE). I just felt it for this one.</p>
<p>My reasoning was that BWE has us there to speak to the people who are there. The best part of conferences to me is face to face networking. As such, I wanted to focus on delivering the presentation to the people we were looking in the eyes and on answering the questions of anyone who stepped to the mic and looked us in the eyes. If no one stepped to the mic, sure, we&#8217;d then open up Twitter. But, otherwise, I didn&#8217;t want to.</p>
<p>So, I told Wayne this and he was cool with it. I told Amber and so was she. I wasn&#8217;t sure how Robert would react, but he was gracious and agreed to it (he didn&#8217;t even open his laptop during the panel!). I was so happy with the way we stuck to it. The only question asked from Twitter was one that another person actually came to the mic to ask, which was awesome (to me).</p>
<p>Twitter is amazing and we all love it, but I think that&#8230; for one panel&#8230; the idea of not looking at it was a good thing. So, don&#8217;t feel like you have to do stuff just because everyone else is doing it or because you feel like you&#8217;d be scorned if you didn&#8217;t do it for not being &#8220;transparent.&#8221; </p>
<p>Hope this makes sense.</p>
<p>Thanks again,</p>
<p>Patrick</p>
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		<title>By: Nathan T. Wright</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nathan T. Wright</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 14:09:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the comment, Conor, and I&#039;m glad to hear that you&#039;re going to dive back into the speaking. Keep educating people and great things will happen for you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the comment, Conor, and I&#8217;m glad to hear that you&#8217;re going to dive back into the speaking. Keep educating people and great things will happen for you!</p>
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		<title>By: Conor Neill</title>
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		<dc:creator>Conor Neill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 23:37:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love your post.  I have been reflecting a lot over the last year and a half and realised that a part of my life that I really enjoyed was the public speaking.  I had never thought much about doing it for money, but several opportunities have come my way over the last while.  Your post has given me the push I needed to get serious about this.  

I think the do it free for a year is vital - I say yes to everybody and it is also the best learning experience that I could have got on how to get better at it.  Keep up the posts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love your post.  I have been reflecting a lot over the last year and a half and realised that a part of my life that I really enjoyed was the public speaking.  I had never thought much about doing it for money, but several opportunities have come my way over the last while.  Your post has given me the push I needed to get serious about this.  </p>
<p>I think the do it free for a year is vital &#8211; I say yes to everybody and it is also the best learning experience that I could have got on how to get better at it.  Keep up the posts.</p>
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		<title>By: Nathan T. Wright</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nathan T. Wright</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 16:19:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jamie, joining a speakers bureau might be a logical next step. Definitely check out Midwest Speakers Bureau (www.speakernow.com). Tell Angela that Nathan sent you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jamie, joining a speakers bureau might be a logical next step. Definitely check out Midwest Speakers Bureau (www.speakernow.com). Tell Angela that Nathan sent you!</p>
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		<title>By: Craig Maltby</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig Maltby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 16:06:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Really good thoughts, Nathan. All on the mark. A couple things about memorable speakers that have impressed me:

The good one&#039;s don&#039;t fixate on the PPT screen. They look at the audience the whole time. One public speaking trainer told me that a truly effective speaker should need no visual aids at all--just a command of the topic and a memorable, engaging delivery. That may be a bit radical, but point well taken. 

Another tip: leave your audience with a call to action. What do you want them to do when they leave the room?  Could be &quot;call your legislator.&quot; Could be &quot;learn more by going here...&quot; Could be &quot;tell your boss and colleagues that they should be looking at or doing (this)....&quot;

And finally....stories. Load up a presentation with stories and anecdotes to impart the message. Audiences connect with real-world examples. Dry, rote instructions and bullet points are easy to hide behind and make for a seriously dull presentation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Really good thoughts, Nathan. All on the mark. A couple things about memorable speakers that have impressed me:</p>
<p>The good one&#8217;s don&#8217;t fixate on the PPT screen. They look at the audience the whole time. One public speaking trainer told me that a truly effective speaker should need no visual aids at all&#8211;just a command of the topic and a memorable, engaging delivery. That may be a bit radical, but point well taken. </p>
<p>Another tip: leave your audience with a call to action. What do you want them to do when they leave the room?  Could be &#8220;call your legislator.&#8221; Could be &#8220;learn more by going here&#8230;&#8221; Could be &#8220;tell your boss and colleagues that they should be looking at or doing (this)&#8230;.&#8221;</p>
<p>And finally&#8230;.stories. Load up a presentation with stories and anecdotes to impart the message. Audiences connect with real-world examples. Dry, rote instructions and bullet points are easy to hide behind and make for a seriously dull presentation.</p>
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